So yesterday was interesting, and the whole world is keeping an eye on OW's house since H claims he doesn;t go there and she is not allowed live ins. How embarassing. Really it would be my worst nightmarenow to have one of my close friends come up to me and tell me that they have discovered he is staying there because of course they will have all discussed how sorry they are for me first.
H was really the kindest he has been in this tyoe of situation yesterday before this any time anything was the least bit stressful he brought it back on me. He did say that he didn;t think we should have the talk last night that he suggested on Sunday because after the day hehadit would not be productive. I agreed and didn;t push. I told him that there was a birthday party for his grandma on saturday and he said he would be there(i am shocked) and what are we taking as a gift. He was supposed to come over tonight after work. As I mentioned in an earlier post today is normally his day off but they are doing something in his stores where they empty the entire stock room steam clean everything and shrink wrap and today was the day for his store. He called me at work first at noon to vent how stupid it was, and then at 4 to say he didn;t know what time he would be getting out of there. He kept contacting me about little things all night. Then at about 7 sent a text saying that he would come over tomorrow after he went to his parents. I told him I didn't think we would be here. I was going to take D to the Great Wolf Lodge. H-that sounds like fun Me - yes last day for $99 remember I asked you last month if we should all go. Yes I remember then a few minutes later, maybe I will meet you down there.
Should I have said no? I didn't I just said I need an answer ahead of time so I can get a wrist band.
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009
