Can you believe it. Ex's father stood my daughter up for her outing. I am in so much pain about it.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
will have aged dramatically from all the crap our H's have put them through.
They will have severe bags under their eyes and lost all their hair.
Their boobs will have sagged down to the ground....
thanks ladies...
that sounds like me
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Trusting I am sorry to say this but "like father like son?" I pray taht my son break the hold that has been on this family and go with God. it can be broken..but it is a choice. I am sure something did "come up" but so often we adults dont realize teh pain we cause...we can be so selfish...all of us.
I also read what you said about ow...oh let me just give you a taste of my hs bimbo last year. just for fun okay okay?
she met h around this time last year-- they hmm shall we say consumated at the end of April..(he called crying..had to be because of that.) they were off into la la land until......... June - his psycho bit July - my psycho bit July- he got fired (ohhhh so sad no car anymore...she had to drive him around..no more money either_ August -- he came back September -she got him back October- December I am sure they lived in la la land dont know uch about january february-they broke up no fun valentines pressent for bimb march- she is back in april she has been in and out a couple times
Little 23 year old bimbo has noooooooo idea what she is in for. It has JUST really started. He "owns her now...she ahs no where else to turn and that empowers him.... i remember...and ohhhhhhhhhhh the joy of living with a man in mlc.
thank you for letting me share--- makes the last year seem like nothing for me..
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again
owns her now...she ahs no where else to turn and that empowers him
In my sitch the standard of living of OW has increased BIG time by living with H. So she is happy he owns her, it is not in her best interests for him to disown her. This empowers her.
Quite what will happen now that my son has gone to live with H remains to be seen. I suspect they will all become one happy family and that will empower her even more.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
Thanks for sharing that, you made me laugh and I really needed to do that today. It is nice to talk with people who trully understand.....
ACJ,
OMG.... My son went to live with his father. THEY DO NOT BECOME ONE HAPPY FAMILY.... My son is seeing through to what OW really is. She is nothing like me. She has no class. Your son will see that also. She is everything my son does not respect. She is slime. He has also seen that they really do not get along that well. They cannot possibly, H is in MLC, and she is just one needy sleeze-bag. Let him experience it. He will come back respecting you like you have never seen. Don't worry.....
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
