It does sound as if you have been the nice guy throughout your sitch. You say that we won't be friends, but then it is, actually, hard to do. I have recently expressed my boundaries to my WW and let her know that our friendship will not be if she continues. And then this morning, as I am making my lunch, I ask her if she wants the same thing. She says sure, and I make her lunch for her while she is preparing my cup of coffee for me. Moments like these, I don't know if I'm coming or going. The confusion is mind boggling to me.


Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."