A, You give the mow way too much power over your though processes. You are "assuming" that they are still romantically linked. That may not be the case, so snap that rubberband every time you think of her.
It's good to see he's talking to you about a place that you've been before. It do find it interesting that he mentioned it since it's pre-marriage, but yet, I'm not surprised--it's part of his history and he's revisiting those memories.
Keep a journal if it will help you to follow your progress.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
