Yes Michelle that does sound like great advice. My H has always been a little bit of a dim bulb before all of this went down. He did leave me a note just now that says "I am working out" He works out everyday at this time, but it is nice to have a note that says that. I will try to talk to him soon about letting me know when he expects to be home and whatnot. I think I have made some HUGE changes in not mothering him. I still need to work on it. My IC has been really helpful with me in that regards.
Another issue with my H in that he is really spontaneous. He doesn't always know where he is going to be or what he is going to do until the mood hits him. I totally respect that in him, and is somethign that made me fall in love with him since I am not like that. But still...if he changes his plans, I would like to know.
Sara
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08
