Time to turn it around

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Let the past posts go and focus on the future. People change and are told to do so. You have me changing for the good now and should be happy instead.

I think this is the best approach. In one sense, everyone here has been 'working' way harder on your marriage, than you, Dar. But--you ARE changing a little.

It's time to stop the banter over whether Dar is actually DBing or not. If she doesn't really do it, don't spend posts and threads arguing about it...just move on to someone else.



I believe Dar has been 'bashed' not DBing more than almost anyone in recent times. There are a LOT of folks who haven't really done the things that work.

Dar- you've really had the best of the best working with you. Take it and RUN with it. You've gotten attention others would love to have.



But let's move forward, advice or not.....but this bickering about it is useless.