It always hurt OW's H to tell me things (I was the one SO out of the loop), but then I went and did it to him in November when they started to see each other again and OW's H did not know. Sue, you would want HIM to tell YOU anything he knew, if you were misinformed. It hurts, but its the right thing. I am glad you kept the article to yourself. I feel for him, heck, we all do, we know where he is at this point in time.
Good job on tackling your money issues and gathering boxes. Boxes can always be thrown away if not needed. I am super proud of you!
