I agree- great job on the validating. I really like the plan of not having any more R talks and focussing on yourself while H and D are away. Have you got any plans made?
What H said about being upset that you didn't return his calls really struck a chord with me- it's funny how the WAS on the one hand don't want anything to do with us, and on the other get upset if we don't have so much to do with them. My H was exactly the same earlier in our S- wanted space then complained when I gave it to him.
Hope you're having a good day today!
L.xx
Walk on, walk on, with hope in your heart. And you'll never walk alone.