To think that the "cast members" have spent hours and hours trying to help you to learn how to detach and how to cope and how to function normally again.
We have been giving out advice and have handed out the necessary 2x4's and the hugs and have really tried to just be a support to you, and now you do this.
For months you have groaned and bitched and whined and complained about everything under the sun. From your job, to your co-workers, your in-laws, your Husband, your Daughter's school, your finances, your weight, the list goes on and on.
And now, out of the blue you want to tell us you have cancer.
Not once have you ever mentioned this before, or even alluded to it.
You never mentioned you had a Doctor appointment, and from your history you would have been blabbing on and on about this.
You say that they are doing a biopsy.
So, does your Doctor just know you have Cancer before he/she gets the results?
None of this makes sense.
Dar, I have tried and tried to be there for you, so have the other cast members, but now, I will sit back and watch from a distance.
I will watch you flail and flounder as you try to figure out more attention seeking things to do.
I hope I am wrong about you, but it is really hard to believe a single word that comes out of your mouth.
You are self deluded if you think you are a positive person. You have balls babe, I will give you that. To start out a thread the way you did with that vile post, doesn't show anything more then the works of someome who likes to stir the sh*t.
What exactly were you hoping to accomplish?
Not once do you ever follow through on any of the things you say you are going to do.
You groan and whine over every little thing that takes you out of your comfort zone.
You make excuses.
IF and I say this lightly, IF this IS the side of you that your Husband sees, I only have one thing to say to him.....
RUN FORREST RUN
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
