Thanks again Kissak. Shortly after H left, I had a tumor in my hand that was removed. My mom took me while H stayed at my place to get D from school. He said he would spend the night to make sure I was okay since I wouldn't have feeling in my arm for about 6-8 hours. Shortly after my mom brought me home and left, H left. Mom was ticked and I know from that that I need to have back up instead of what H might say. Although he is alot better about things now and that was only 6 months post bomb, and 1 month after I found out about OW.
