I've spoken to him three times today. The longest was a few minutes ago when I rang him to say goodnight. He was in Hs car on the way back from his GFs. H is, at the moment, pulling out all the stops. Normally S15 walks to his GFs. Even if I suggest taking him he isn't that keen and he certainly doesn't want me picking him up. Admittedly Hs flat is a little further away. It's annoying me that he is doing this. I know he wouldn't have done it had he still been at home with his complete family. The only consolation I have is that the more time H spends ferrying S15 about the less time he is spending with OW. No doubt she will get fed up of it soon and demand some attention.
This really is hard. It's almost like H leaving all over again, especially the first time he left b/c that time I asked him to leave. Given that S15 had to be co-erced to go live with H this week there is a very strong correlation and it's eating away at me.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
