Ok some people on the other board said that I need to detach but still let W know I am interested. So today when she leaves to take her mom to the doctor.. I am going to pick some roses from my garden and put them in a vase on the counter.. WHen she comes home I am going to say.. "Welcome back..I picked ya some flowers"
Ok I need to be prepaired becasue EVERYTIME I have made any action that looked like I wanted her she would agian shut down and it takes about a week to get back to where I am today..
later Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
