Yes, I have discussed these expectations with my H. He has expectations as well and we need to work together on this. I have to have faith that he will follow through with what he says. I didn't want him to say "Yes, we are getting back together and everything will be fine." Because when it comes right down to it...it may not, he may decide he would be happier alone, I may decide I can't forgive him. Obviously I want it to work out, but I will be ok either way. I just think we both deserve to try. I guess what I am saying is that I don't have any expectations on the final outcome....just how we go about getting there.
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Of course, like all....ahem, donkeys....they often stop and must be prodded again!
I think you are right!
Apparently H called me from work today and didn't have my number so he just called my department and asked for my extension. I told one person that I work with that H and I were getting a D right when I started working here and that is who H talked to when he called. I haven't told her that we are trying to work it out. So anyway, a few minutes ago she came to my office and said "Are you ok? Your H called and asked for your extension. I wasn't sure whether to give it to him or not...I was worried you might not want him to have it." I just told her that I didn't realize he had called the main number but it was not a big deal. She asked if we were working things out and I told her we were trying. She said H said "This is Kris' husband and I can't remember her extension, can you transfer me to her?" ...So he did identify himself as my H rather than just asking for me. Maybe I am reading too much into that.....here I go analyzing.
