So where in N SD do your folks live? I have lived here my entire life but really wish now I could move to Hawaii...when H returned we took a family cruise there and loved it...we returned this past Feb/Mar for our 28th anniversary...the first one we have celebrated since his return!
It is a long process to rebuild a marriage from the ground up which is why I preach patience and time...I had to swallow that pill with no water but I am thankful that I did...
I can honestly say that my H and I are doing well...he is on meds for depression because when he returned he was an emotional mess...and not much better physically...this time really showed him how deep my love was and he even admitted that the OW would not have taken all this very well (I could have told him that)...forgiveness is another hard pill to swallow...it is easy to say but another to do...really make sure of this before any reconciliation takes place as it can rear it's ugly head and do some major damage if it isn't real forgiveness...
Keep moving forward...keep focusing on your positives...reach out to the others...be the best you can be!...in time it will be noticed...and not just by W!
