Do you know I've started thinking of you when I have a cup of tea. Which is quite often during the day. 'Would you like a cup of tea?' always makes me smile these days!! Especially now I have the image of you subtly checking your knick-knocks to check which day it is!!
So, so far you've called B twice right? The first time was a 6 min conversation- you called and he picked up? And the second was you calling then him calling back?
I think leaving a 4 week gap is quite long aswell...... although I understand you wanting him to initiate contact. It'd be a great baby step from him and give you an insight into where you are right now in your R with him. So I think what I would do would be to find a piece of music/article/recipe aswell and send it to him- I am totally with K on sending him something that doesn't ask a question or require a response......I think it would....
a) remind him to think of you in a non-pressuring way b) show him that you are thinking of him c) be a chance to remind him how fun you are in infiltrate his mind in a subtle, not 'in your face' way (not that I mean calls are in your face, but they certianly require immediate response) d) gives him an 'excuse' to contact you if he wants to but is nervous about it (remember that he may be as nervous about being in touch with you as you are with him, especially as he was having crisis type stuff going at at the bomb)
I would guarantee that he will respond- more so if you don't ask him anything/make the contact unpressured. Also, it's a slightly different way of making contact I assume (since you mentioned to K that i didn't occur to you to try it initially). So a good way of 'doing something different'.
I used this method on my H today and got a response from him pretty quickly which I hadn't expected to. So as well as all the reasons above, it's a good thing to try because it works!!
Hope you're having an AWESOME day T-TheQueenOfTheCelloWorldAnd SuperHotChefGirl!
L.xx
Walk on, walk on, with hope in your heart. And you'll never walk alone.
