Please help me! Wife wants out! (5)

[Rob1231]

My real point is not about the baby - you can get the test done or not, when you feel the time is right. My advice to you: Consider accepting the baby, regardless of who the father is. After all, the baby's mother is the person you love and want to spend your life with - and isn't that what's really important?

My real point is about OM1 - if you set your hopes on him just vanishing from the scene in a puff of smoke, particularly in light of the paternity question, you are setting yourself up for disappointment.

What is it I keep telling you? Focus on yourself to be happy - not on W, not on OM1, not on OM2, not even on the baby. It all starts with Happy Steve.