Thanks everyone.

WCW, no opinions are too harsh! I'm not letting her take advantage of me - I think she's starting to realize that she's no longer in control. I'm willing to stay on the mortgage AND title for a little bit because it makes it easier in the short-term for me. Beyond that, no way. I'll push for selling the house at a loss before I agree to that kind of long-term commitment with all its obvious pitfalls.

Kerry, it is definitely hard to realize the tendencies she has, especially because she's actually an incredible person who I love dearly. But she obviously can't maintain relationships! This is a hard realization to accept - but I have to.

The Rubies are great - great hiking! Go up Lamoille canyon and there are some beautiful lakes up high. The Utah trip sounds great, but I understand what you mean about funds. Gas is not going to be cheap for the amount of driving you'll be doing.

lodo

PS - decided to go ahead and file. Took the day off work and am filling out the forms now.


Divorced: 10/26/08