So the suggestion is to cross the bridges as they come. Well why then am I expected to stand still on the bridge of reconcilliation when H shows he doesn't want that? Shouldn't I just turn around and walk back off the bridge and find another one to walk across?

My Monkey Bug...Monkey is son's nickname and Bug is daughter's nickname. Even my email is

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I had at one time wanted vanity plates for my van that said 'monkbug' but never got around to it.

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