I hope you can get something from this. I feel I'm loosing ground on my R. To go to bed at night alone... then my W slips in and I turn away from her. To see her number come up on my cell phone and decide to let it go to voicemail isn't me. I want so much and she wants so little.
Going dark has its benefits. I don't hurt as much as before. I do what I want and don't care that she doesn't want to join me. I listen to her arguments without any emotion. I save alot of money on the MC.
Fixer (Looking for the positives in an negative relationship)
