[needlove]

Hi Ip! I replied to your other post, but found you here.

Our sitches are so similar. My H is also cold and uncaring. Has been that way for a year or more. It does make the spark dim. There are days I curse him. Of course he doesn't hear me cause I'm in the other room.

I got confirmation this past weekend that he made a pass at our neighbor last year. She told her H who spoke w/my H. They never told me until this weekend when they asked how things were going. I'm glad they told me, but I wish they would have said something sooner.

Problem is that I still want this M to work. If there is an OW I think I could come back from it. I just need him to want to try. I can't figure out how to get him to do that.

I've worked through my low self-esteem issues and GAL. I'm out more now than before but H doesn't seem to care. He just spends extra time out "working." (he's a contractor)