Its been a year since our seperation and I have not yet met the OW. My girls are having thier annual ballet recital and STBX wants to bring his 'new family'. We have yet to go to our first court hearing. We arent even 'legally" seperated. The girls could care less if the OW is there and H is making fuss about wanting OW there. Says he will do whatever it takes to get extra tickets. I only get a certain # of tickets per family. I dont think I am asking too much by telling him I undertand she is part of his life but until the D is final I dont want her included in MY family's events.
Does anyone think I am being unreasonable? He tells me to get over it and get use to it. HUH!! We are emailing back and forth about this and my response was I am use to it obviuosly when I turned you down sexually. I then told him ,hmmm... maybe I should take this opportunity to tell your OW about your sexual advances.
