He tells me that he knows he has lied to me in the past and I have no reason to believe him this time, but he swears there isn't another woman. He just hasn't felt like coming home and has been wanting to get out of the house. He is sorry that it upsets me so much.
Possible and a positive communication if it's true. He may actually be coming back.
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He again swears that there isn't another woman and I am getting worked up for no real reason.
This is have a BIG problem with. It is a VERY real reason - he betrayed you and lied to you. He needs to wrap his brain around that. You are entitled to your feelings and him dismissing them like that is completely not cool.
Perhaps you should go dark, perhaps you should move back into the bedroom. That's your decision.
But I think one thing that may need to happen is that he gets flat-out told that because of the past you get very anxious and worried when he is late and then it would make you feel much better if he would call you and update you. Eg. a second text saying "gotta run to a second store, home in XX min."
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
