Hello, Star. I've never posted, but I've followed your very heartbreaking situation. I'm sorry you're in so much pain right now. I think your H is reaching out to you and it's great that he told you he loves you. My H and I haven't said ILY since November. =(
I don't know, I might take your H up on the offer to move back in to the bedroom. It could be an opening that doesn't present itself again and I way to open up your H to work on your marriage.
Wishing you peace of mind, girlfromipanema
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence