My ability to post on grumpyeby's thread has been revoked. I wanted to provide her with my email since she's just down the road from me... why don't they let us contact each other?
I've searched the rules of conduct and wasn't able to find any information. Can someone please point me in the right direction.
I'm starting to irritated by this. We're here to support one another but aren't allowed to connect?
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence
I am sure there is a good reason to not post email addresses. It would be great if the "send a PM" worked. However, I am just thankful there is this fabulous free forum to receivet and give support/advice in, so minor rules should not be a big deal.
From the faq...
Originally Posted By: What are the rules of conduct for the forum?
Registration as a user implies acceptance of the following terms and conditions: - To fully benefit from participating in our community you should register. Registration as a user implies acceptance of the following terms and conditions: - Participants shall not post any material that is likely to cause offense, is protected by copyright, trademark or other proprietary right - or that contains personal contact information, email addresses, phone numbers or any other addresses. - Participants shall treat each other with respect, refraining from rudeness and foul language. - Participants may not use the forums to post or transmit advertisements or commercial solicitations of any kind. - The forum Administrators and Moderators have the right to edit, move, censor, delete or otherwise modify any posted message. - This web site does not verify or guarantee the accuracy of the material posted to the forums or bear any responsibility for any loss, damage, or other liabilities caused by any posted message.
There was a big crackdown a month or two ago, and now we are no longer allowed to post emails. Unfortunately, the PMs don't work either. Not sure what the deal is with that.
Hope you are okay today.
N
Life isn't about finding yourself; it's about creating yourself My thread: Trusting God's Plan
GFI, hope you didn't get into to too much trouble trying to give my your email. I'm just checking on you to see if you had the talk with H and if so how it went?
Just stopped by because I was thinking about you.
Corey
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Hi Ip! I replied to your other post, but found you here.
Our sitches are so similar. My H is also cold and uncaring. Has been that way for a year or more. It does make the spark dim. There are days I curse him. Of course he doesn't hear me cause I'm in the other room.
I got confirmation this past weekend that he made a pass at our neighbor last year. She told her H who spoke w/my H. They never told me until this weekend when they asked how things were going. I'm glad they told me, but I wish they would have said something sooner.
Problem is that I still want this M to work. If there is an OW I think I could come back from it. I just need him to want to try. I can't figure out how to get him to do that.
I've worked through my low self-esteem issues and GAL. I'm out more now than before but H doesn't seem to care. He just spends extra time out "working." (he's a contractor)
Me 35 H 41 M 10 years Together 12 years D,6 SS, 17,19
