You are sounding really good!!! Keep up the positive attitude!
W2G
Thanks W2G, I am feeling better. I have realized that my down times come from setting expectations that are not going to happen right now so no need in keep beating myself up by bringing up R talks. I hope that I can stay in this mind set as I am right now. It really does get your mind off of things. I have to see the positives and go off of those.
Some positives I see are: Neither of us have pushed for filing. We have yet to put the house on the market. We have yet to split any assets we have. We can talk and get along. We sit beside eachother at ball games and talk at S's ball games.
Of course the financials and house are a two sided sword, I am still making the payment on the house so she really doesn't have any reason to push to buy me out or to sell at this time. I guess I will find out soon enough if she is doing this for her own good or if she is hoping that I will change and stick to those changes so we can salvage our M. Time will tell.
