My H, along with other spouses across the BB, have said similar things many times.
Mine too! He said it back in November, and we got nowhere. This time was different. We both expressed what "working on it" would look like and we agreed to take those steps together. It was more than just words...more like a gameplan that we both agreed to.
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Remain detached and have no expectations.
I know detachment is still important..but, here is the thing...I DO have expectations. Not expectations that everything will be fine, but expectations that he will do what he said. Is it not ok at this point to have some sort of expectations? I just feel like if he doesn't try like he said, then I am done. This is it. Last chance.
