What does a "transparency plan" look like? Are there examples of this online?

I know that my H wasn't willing to send OW a no contact letter when he "broke it off" with her. And they got back together 2 days later. It wasn't until OW ended it with him that things really took hold, but that isn't ideal either. You would like for your spouse to break it off with the Ow and be open about it.

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08