I think she's back

[ediemarie]

Hey Sara - I haven't posted in awhile, but I've been following along...I think your H needs to prove soem things to you before you move anywhere. You still don't know what is going on with him. Has he agreed to counseling yet? How about Retrouvaille? Is he willing to keep to strict time schedules with you such as "I am going out and will be home at 10. I will be at such and such a place" And stick to that? You need to figure out what you need to make this situation ok and then ask for it. I wouldn't move anywhere if I were you. He wants you back in the bedroom, great, acknowledge that you'd like that, too, but he has some work to do first - make him earn it. Make sure he knows that you are willing to work on this, but it's going to take time. I'm not convinced that he isn't seeing someone else. That roses story was way too unconvincing - don't swallow the BS. Don't believe what he says, believe his actions. You can't trust his words right now. If he loves you, like he says he does, his actions will follow.
(((((SARA)))))