Hi, Kris. Glad to hear that your talk with your H went pretty well! \:\)

Originally Posted By: klm
I have decided to put my foot down and he committed to trying so we'll see how it goes.


Now, I don't want to be downer, but just remember what you wrote: "he committed to trying". My H, along with other spouses across the BB, have said similar things many times. Much too often, we get hung up on their words and spoken promises when what we're really supposed to be paying attention to is our S's ACTIONS.

Remain detached and have no expectations. This is a big lesson that I had to learn. As mush as we want our Hs to come back and work on the M with us, it will only happen when he is truly ready.

Hope you have a great day and a wonderful lunch tomorrow! \:\)

Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell