(((((cw)))))
I'm trying to figure out how to walk both sides of the fence. Could you go dimmer on him, and yet maintain good family time? Maybe stop any extra hanging out, but still be there for the kids. I thing the timing is good for going dim, maybe you could split the difference, have less family time, but focus on making it really good?

I have a feeling that wasn't really helpful! I will keep thinking!