He had promised me that this time it was over for real. He seemed so sincere and was so wonderful to me. However her 60 + texts and calls per day got to be too much for me to deal with. He seemed to be enjoying it.
W2M,
You need to understand, that all cheaters lie. All of them, every time. This is why I've tried to encourage you to put a no-contact and transparency system in place, IF your husband is sincere.
It sounds like he isn't, but this will quickly snuff out the b.s. and let you focus on the task at hand, and make some good decisions for yourself. The next he says "this time it's over for real," or "I'm no longer in contact with her," ask him to send her a no-contact leter (the content of which is to be approved by you, and it is to be delivered by a 3rd party), and to set up a transparency plan that YOU feel comfortable with, so he can rebuild your trust.
I can give you details on all of that, but I strongly suspect he won't even let you get to that point, because he sounds, frankly, like he's playing you.
