Addie, I've read my own post and didn't like the sound of it. As if I was saying "do your thing no matter what and let your H deal with his mess alone". What I was trying to say was that: if you go with him NOW, before he is back to his own self and can take full responsibility for his actions, you may prolong the rollercoaster ride. He will take a new job, move to the new city, find himself unhappy, which seems to have become a pattern with him, and blame it on you once again. When he will be out of the fog for good you will know it and will make your decision accordingly.
I'm not sure this one is much better (post) but will submit it anyway :).
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08
