I'm a mess..Part of me wants him to stay here..But I can't live on these terms of his..He had promised me that this time it was over for real. He seemed so sincere and was so wonderful to me. However her 60 + texts and calls per day got to be too much for me to deal with. He seemed to be enjoying it. Today i told him he needs to go and get a place, he says we're done and he no longer wants me.He'll never be able to love me again if she's still in the picture. I think I need to go dark for a while and see what happens..Thank you for the responses..I really appreciate all the advice.


Me: 36 H: 34
2 D's: 10+13
Married: 13 yrs(Together 15)
Found out about A-Jan 08
Finally ended April 08..I hope??
Struggling to co-exist in peace