Thanks SJV. This has been a roller coaster. I don't know how much you know about my story, but I moved after H filed for D. I had a job opportunity and I moved about 1,000 miles away. H ended up not following through with the D, driving here, and telling me that he made a huge mistake. He took the steps to move here, and then right after that he pulled away again and we were friends, but that was IT. I have decided to put my foot down and he committed to trying so we'll see how it goes.
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I don't know how to handle my family though... any suggestions on that??
The only thing that I know to do is to not talk to them about it. I know that is hard...but I found out early in this that I can forgive my H for things that other people can't or don't think I should. The thing about is....they have no clue what they would do in your shoes. I always said I would be out the door and never look back if my H had an affair...which is obviously not what I did. Your mom cares about you and doesn't want to see you hurting. Vent here. Have you thought about seeing a counselor? I know that really helped me in the beginning.
