OMG Here we go again!! What Have I Done??

[Starshyne]

When I called the OW I thought I had majorly messed up. H was so angry at me. He even yelled "You really F 'ed up my life!" He has never swore at me before or since. I thought I had just written my own divorce papers at that point. However....calling the OW was a huge wake up call for him and for her. She ended their relationship a few weeks later. She also was able to answer some of my questions that H wouldnt' answer. After I called her, I had a peace that I didn't have before. My biggest mistake in all of it was that I told H too much about what she said. I told him because it was mean and I wanted to hurt him. That was wrong. I know that calling the OW isn't ideal for most, but I just wanted you to know that I thought my H would never get over the anger, and he was over it at least 2 days later if not sooner.

Sara