There was nothing wrong with what you did, so don't beat yourself up about it. Your H will get over his anger. This was just a reality check for him and he doesn't like it, OH WELL.
Like the others said, you are doing great and keep up the good work. This too shall pass.
I understand the lonely and need affection thing too, but doing that will only make a bad situation worse and IMHO negate all of the wonderful work you are doing. We are here for you.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
