Michele blieves most people will give you the wrong advise.

They want you to feel beter. They only have 1/2 the story.

I had to tell my parents. (kids know and would have told them)

Do not talk about R and do not ask them to help.

All I have been telling people is to "pray for the things our family needs the most during this dificult time"

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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