I am doing fine. Accepting and detaching is very hard. There is only one person working on the relationship here and it can not go on forever. My Psyc said it is unhealth mentally to continue to put in an effort and get no response. If a women in NJ wants a D she gets one. It is that simple. I am sure her actions are some kind of revenge but what can I do about this? I am going somewhat dark and just staying out of her angry way. That is best for all involved. I love my family more and more everyday and want to do what is best for them for thier future and thier growth.