Hey, Jack ~ long time no read. I did stop by your thread the other day and was happy to see how well things are going for you. Nice to see all that hard work pay off!
Anyway, I'm responding to the trust but snoop thing. It takes all my willpower sometimes NOT to snoop, but I'm not sure that my motives for not snooping are the right ones - at this point, I could not handle evidence of anything, I have no idea what I would do if I found something - I just don't need the stress, which for me starts as soon as I even think about looking. I shake the entire time and finding nothing proves nothing. For me, it's just not worth it, and wouldn't be unless it was truly a deal-breaker, which apparently in my current spineless state it isn't.
