Hi ken,that thing with the D fairy is right on my W is only concerned about money now.I dont think you should be waiting for her to feel bad about the situation,I keep thinking about that and it only seems to make matters worse.I know your trying like Hell.It does seem like the Ws seem to be acting some what the same in your stich and mine.About them being happy and free,really dont get that one with all the damage they are causing,they sure are blind to everything arent they!Keep your head up i know it hurts,just keep going forward you got nothing to lose.Hang in there Mike
Me:42 W:41 Married 22 seperated12-31-07,served papers 2-29-08 S21-S20 partialy disabled S17 Divorce sighed 10-7-08 final 90 days after
Ha! The D Fairy. That is funny. My W is hoping for a shiny new life to come out from under her pillow as well. I guess it all comes down to birthdays and hot days in the sun. We have to give them their space to figure it all out and to give them the gift of missing us. Meanwhile we work to better ourselves for ourselves and hope we become a person they would be crazy to divorce. We each have to kill our own snakes.
Me: 35 WAW: 28 Bomb: 1/13/08 S: 1/14/08 D filed: 2/24/08 D final on 7/07/08
Do your damndest in an ostentatious manner all the time. -George S. Patton
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Yep is such a shame they think its greener on the other side. Want their freedom but want us to always fall back on when they run into trouble. And doing lots of damage that seems irrepairable especially with the kids. My W isnt red headed but man, I think she was suppose to be and I wouldnt be with her in the first place if she was! (no offense red heads cuz my brother and sisters are red headed and I'm not! mailman maybe?)
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M-31 W-28 S7 D2.5 T 8, M 4 W filed 2-14-08 D on hold 3/08 D off hold 5/08 D to be final on/by Nov 08 Anniv 9-4 looked hopeful
