You are right Husband, it was my time. I had to be ready for the fact that he might say no and tell me to file. Can't threaten without following through right?
H was very sure that he doesn't want to be divorced. Back in July/August I remember him saying he was 110% sure he didn't want to be married. We have made a committment to each other to try. If it doesn't work out, I feel like I can say that we both did everything we could.