You are pushing the issue to much, in my opinion...people on here will talk about yo-yoing or the rollercoaster all the time. You have a great time, be glad about it, don't expect all to be solved just b/c you show each other affection. Yo-yoing = great time then a bit later, recoil back to mess. You have to live with it. Keep your PMA up, yet try not to ride every wave with her. Be there, but you cannot live up and down all the time. It will wreck you.
I certainly would not be pushing splitting. That is not going to get you where you want to go. It is much harder to show your changes when you don't have ample opportunities.
You can give her space w/o leaving. This isn't something you want, so once again, I would not be pushing the envelope. You've said what you have had to say twice...I wouldn't again. Let her bring up R/M stuff and if she does, validate, understand, listen and say less. By her saying she did not want to rush D, tells me she is unsure. So, be happy with that and as I've said several times, don't push. This is her journey, you are the passenger...if you want to get kicked out of the car, start driving...
