Saffie, you are a star!

I spent this morning `realigning` myself and I am feeling much better.

Your words though, made me feel all warm inside again. Back on track now!

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I know a lot of people in the UK seem to think a pregnant woman's bump is public property

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She will want those around her who support her, not those who need constant reassurance, so don't make OM out to be more than he is. He is not in the position you are in that he can offer your W the support and care she is going to need. It's easy for him at the moment to be there and offer encouragement etc as it doesn't cost him anything.

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He is NO competition at all.

All things I needed to hear.

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So what if your W's ego needs these little boosts at the moment - she is pregnant and probably doesn't feel too attractive and so will take compliments from where ever they come at the moment.
I hadnt thought of this, but you do have apoint she is feeling unattractive at the moment. She is being crazy as she is looking great, but that is how she feels. I get it a bit more now!

Thanks again

Steve


Me 27
W 30
M 2yrs/ T 5yrs
Expecting our first child Sept 08
warning bomb (has feelings for someone) 21/12/08
I found out about OM (by snooping) 14/1/08
Living together.