I just wanted to tell ya I know how good it felt to have the "talk" I had the talk back in February. Did not really get any answers but I did get to speak my piece. And I have noticed things have mellowed between us since then. During that talk I did mention that I would not talk R until she got a job. BUT... If she has no job by the end of May then I will have the talk that you just had with your H. My other talk was just to find out where we are / were. But now I just need answers about does she or does she not want to work on marriage. It's simple... yes or no. It will hurt a little if she said no but at least I will not be wasting my time and can move on a little more... Ya did the right thing. IT WAS YOUR TIME. We know when it is the right time and you found it. My time is coming...
Have a great day
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know