I think you have done GREAT!

Look, you just put a major kink in his fantasy life. I don't know your whole story, but exposing the affair to people that can have an impact in it's demise is the thing to do in my book. DON'T PAY ANY ATTENTION TO WHAT HE'S SAYING RIGHT NOW.

So two days ago he swore he didn't love her anymore and now he's mad because her mom knows? What's that tell you?

Like I said, I don't know your story, but from what you've written here it sounds like he wasn't over her and you just messed up his little fantasy world. Don't worry. Waywards get over the anger. Just stay consistent. I think his affair may be on the ropes now.

And just a little advise. I'm with you on the lonely and needing affection, but don't do something you'll regret later. If you did and your H wakes up (which will probably happen soon after the affair actually ends) it would make recovery that much harder.

Keep up the good fight. We're with you.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.