Dont be too hard on yourself. This is hard for all of us. Wish I could tell you I am a model DBer but I am not. I have learnt how to keep my mouth shut that is all! lol. You read my sitch. Isee alot of me in you. Get away from the phone, becuase I know you will call her, I know this because I would have and I did. I know you are sitting in that hotel rooms trying to dream up a plausible reason for calling W and having a converstation.
If you check in on my thread you will see I am not doing so perfectly either. We are all in this togehter, I am just a few steps on down the road from you.
You are doing well. Give yourself a pat on the back.
Oh the MIL thing is a positive sign i suppose, as means W is not cutting you from her life just yet.
Women need security and safety in their lives. (ladies correct me if I am wrong). W likes the OM as he gives her a `spark`, but he cannot offer security. Now if you can offer the spark again, I gurantee you will be the better option.
Cheers
Steve
Me 27 W 30 M 2yrs/ T 5yrs Expecting our first child Sept 08 warning bomb (has feelings for someone) 21/12/08 I found out about OM (by snooping) 14/1/08 Living together.
