Patience is key

[addie]

Ping, sorry I didn't see your post earlier and Jen, you evil mind (hehehe), I didn't see your second post. I must have been writing my post (had trouble submitting) when you guys responded.
W2G, I don't know whether H's come to that realization yet. It would be a major step for him to admit that to himself.
My dilemma about moving to another city is more about H's unhappiness rather than actual location. I fear he would still not be satisfied with his job and we'd be right back at square one. The other thing is that I've notified my place of employment back home (I had a deadline) that I'd be returning to work at the end of the summer. After we separated, H requested that I do this. Either way, I'll have a lot of tough decisions to make.