The events are different, but it seems as if they are all stuck in the same thought pattern. grrr.

MM, last week I told my husband to just "man up!" Not good DBing, I realize, but it really is how I feel. He's got a 5- and 6-year old here that he really should be putting first IMO since he's got no big obstacles in his way. But I'm not in his shoes so I can't really understand.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.