Originally Posted By: M from Tennessee


Seems like anything I do is wrong in her eyes. I guess because she looks for the wrong in me. I'm not perfect, far from it.

I'm trying to figure out when she steps up and takes a little accountability for this mess we are in?? Does that ever happen?

By the way, I listened, I heard her. I said I was sorry I ruined her day.


I'm there with you on this. From reading others posts on here, I don't think they admit they have any fault until a long way down the road. It is still early for you for that to happen. I guess as they say, the fog is going to have to clear before they realize what they are doing.


Good job listening to her during this time. It is so easy to cut them off or argue back and defend yourself. You did the right thing.


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