Something else....last time he was having an affair (in December), he lied to me about it for about a week and a half and then finally the pressure got to him and he told me that he had a "special female friend whoses friendship he valued as much as our marriage" (barf!) So if nothing else, I believe I can hang in there for a bit and he will tell me if there is another OW
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08